Funeral

An official Bahá’í funeral service should be only be given for a believer, but there is no objection to the reading of Bahá’í prayers, or indeed to a Bahá’í conducting the funeral service of a non-Bahá’í, if this has been requested.

Shoghi Effendi, Lights of Guidance, p. 198

In connection with the question you asked about the prayer for the dead: any of the prayers which were originally revealed for a man or woman can be said for opposite sex, but the text must not be changed.

Shoghi Effendi, Lights of Guidance, p. 198

Regarding the Bahá’í funeral service; it is extremely simple, as it consist only of a congregational prayers to be read before burial.... your National Spiritual Assembly should take great care lest any uniform procedure or ritual in this matter be adopted or imposed upon the friends. The danger in this, as in some other cases regarding Bahá’í worship, is that a definite system or rigid rituals and practices be developed among the believers. The utmost simplicity and flexibility should be observed...."

Shoghi Effendi, Lights of Guidance, p. 198

There is no objection whatsoever to non-Bahá’ís being present when the long prayer for the dead is read, as long as they respect our manner of reading it by rising and standing as the Bahá’ís do on this occasion. Nor, indeed, is there any objection to non- Bahá’ís being present during the reading of any Bahá’í prayer for the departed.

Shoghi Effendi, Lights of Guidance, p. 198

As you know, the offering of prayers on behalf of the departed, whether Bahá’í or non-Bahá’í, is encouraged in our teachings, as such prayer are conducive to the progress of their souls in the world beyond. As to the holding of memorial gathering or regular intervals, there is nothing in the teachings specifically prohibiting such gatherings, but we find general guidelines in the letters of the beloved Guardian, in which he warns the believers against adhering to the rites and customs of past systems and of former religions, and instead urges them to show forth the Bahá’í way of life and demonstrate the independent character of the teachings of the faith. "Advertising memorial gatherings by the family is entirely a personal matter for the family to decide. It is left to the discretion of your National Spiritual Assembly whether Local Spiritual Assemblies may permit the use of their Bahá’í centers for such gatherings.

Universal House of Justice, Lights of Guidance, p. 198

The prayer for the dead should be recited at the funeral if the deceased is 15  200  years old or more. If there is no one at the funeral able to read, it is sufficient to say only the part of the prayer which requires the repetition nineteen times of each of six short verses. "The body must placed in the grave in such a position that the feet point towards 'Akká (the Qiblih)

Universal House of Justice, Lights of Guidance, p. 198